Married 6 months later. Been 5 years. My husband and I dated for 5 months before moving in together. At the four month mark, I got a job offer out of state. He offered to move with me so we wouldn't have to break up. I didn't see any point in moving to a different state and both of us living in separate apartments, since he was only moving to be with me.
A month after my job offer, we were in a different state, living together. It was surprisingly easy with him. Very little drama, and my apartment felt like home from the very beginning because he was there. The day after our second date, which will be 19 years ago next month. We went through every relationship phase within arms reach of each other and I tried to run away A LOT.
The first day. It just sort of happened. He was incredibly controlling and I needed space from my parents. It obviously did not work out. When we found out we were going to be parents lolz so 1. Zero days. We were roommates for a couple of weeks before we started dating. Yeah, we were already talking about moving in, buying a house, getting married etc after like 1 month. It was ridiculous and yet we just clicked and everything was easy. We both kept apologizing for getting ahead of ourselves but then realizing we were on the same page.
We decided to be a bit more disciplined about it though and he moved into my place after about 9 months dating. We just has our first dating anniversary, everything's groovy. All that matters is that you're enthusiastic about the process, because otherwise it's pretty demoralizing. Two LONG years of that, and now we own a house! About 6 or 7 months. We lived very close to eachother and it didn't make sense for both of us to be paying the crazy rents we do here.
We were together for a little over a year before we moved in together. We were working on the place for a while before we moved in. Perhaps, women think that it is better to know someone for longer before taking that big step. From the survey results, we can map out the general opinion of our respondents. You should know pretty well by six months or a year if things are going well enough to consider moving in together. Of course, there are still some people who think that cohabitation before marriage is unacceptable.
Some reasons cited are they treasure their precious personal space. Some even responded with links to a study conducted on divorce statistics and living together you can read one of them right here. Of course, there are also religious reasons holding them back. You can share bills, rent and Netflix and chill every day if you want. Can you handle it?
Does it endear you to the person?
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